Grey Girls Get Gabbing – Talking To Your Partner About Fifty Shades Of Grey

Grey Girls Get Gabbing – Talking To Your Partner About Fifty Shades Of Grey

From day one of this blog, I was completely open with my husband that I was reading Fifty Shades of Grey. Talking with the Grey Girls, though, I learned that is not the case for all the couples out there. A few of them mentioned to their partner that they were reading it, others completely hid the fact that they were reading a borderline soft core porn novel. Only one other Grey Girl was openly discussing what was going on in the book with her partner, who also happened to be a woman. So what makes it so hard to talk to your husband or boyfriend about Fifty Shades of Grey?

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Talking To Husband Fifty ShadesCaroline: No way in hell am I letting my husband know I’m reading this book. He’s already got an ear full of it from the media as it is, and it’s really set in his mind that this is just girly smut that you read at the beach. I guess he thinks of it as low-class, never mind that all these celebs are reading it. I read it of my Kindle, so it’s not like he can see the book cover, and he usually doesn’t ask me what I’m reading. So it hasn’t been that hard to keep it from him. I doubt that he’s connecting my increased sex drive to the pages I’m flicking through! I’m not even going to try and get him to understand. He’s one of these guys that when he’s got his mind made, there’s no changing it.

Mia: Well, I’ve got the paperback, so it was a little easier to break the ice where talking about the book is concerned. I took the fact that my boyfriend was mildly interested in the whole hub-bub about the book to tell him what I’ve been reading. We talk about the characters, and how they are kinda like the ones in Twilight (which he has watched, so he has a bit of a reference point). He’s asked me what they’ve been up to, what this contract is all about, and what toys they’re using. He’s not a reader, so I don’t know if he’d ever pick up the books himself, but at least we have a dialogue about it. I think that’s the key – find a little spark of interest somewhere and expand on it.

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Kelly: I started reading it, getting really horny, and started wanting to try out the things that were in the novel. My girlfriend asked me where all this new found sexual energy came from, and I told her. So now when I’ve put down the book for the night, she’s asked me what I read, what I liked, and what I want to try. Maybe it’s the fact that she’s a woman that makes communication about Fifty Shades of Grey that much easier, but I have to say my love life is the better for it!

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