Grey Girls Get Gabbing – What’s On Your Limits List?

Grey Girls Get Gabbing – What’s On Your Limits List?

The limits list has been the topic of conversations with the Grey Girls this week. This is a typical scenario for newly formed BDSM couples – sometimes this formal as a list in a contract, while other times it just is a normal part of the getting-to-know you conversation. Today at lunch, a selection of the Grey Girls (Sarah, Mia, Kelly and myself) discussed where our limits would lie both hard (as in “no way in hell you’re EVER doing that to me”) and soft (as in “maybe we can work up to it but not today”).

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Sarah – I don’t have too many issues with bondage itself. Getting my hands or legs tied together or apart wouldn’t get me too scared. Blindfolding it’s a biggie either. I do have pretty bad allergy, so I think I’d start to get uncomfortable with gagging unless it was one of those breathable ball gags. The fact that my nose is usually blocked means I tend to do a bit of mouth breathing when things get exciting! I think with Ana’s own limit of suspension, I’d be a bit intrigued to try it out, if I trusted the man who was doing it. The fact that Christian briefly says that he’s had an ‘incident’ with suspension doesn’t qualify him in my mind to truss me up and leave me hanging!

hot wax candlesMia – See, I’m just the opposite of Sarah. I’m claustrophobic, so the whole idea of being not able to move really upsets me. There have been points reading Fifty Shades where I break into a cold sweat not because I’m getting turned on, but because I’m imagining myself in those scenarios and not being able to escape! Really, any form of bondage where I don’t at least have my arms free is a HUGE hard limit for me. The pain limits list isn’t that bad. I think I could handle most of it. Maybe not the caning, but I like the idea of open hand spanking, maybe using a paddle. Biting and nipple clamps wouldn’t be a bad thing, either!

Kelly – Hot wax!!! No way that my partner is EVER going to get a candle near me. The number of times I’ve burned my fingers setting up a romantic dinner or lighting birthday candles in unreal. I can’t handle that kind of pain on fingers that are already calloused and burned a few times. I don’t even want to think about getting hot wax dripped on my more sensitive parts of my body. That’s where I draw the line for the Fifty Shades limits list. The rest of it – gimmie! Spank me, pinch me, even tied me up and leave me begging for more. Just don’t get any lit flames near my lady parts!

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Me – I’m no pain slut, that’s for sure. Spanking and paddling, yes. I can do with that. Whipping and caning are starting to cross the line – I would call those soft limits. Nipple and genital clamps I think I can handle. I don’t like being cold, so I think ice would be at the outer edge of a soft limit. Bondage – as long as I’m not completely covered, I think I can handle it. No straight jackets, hoods or mummy-type wrappings. I wouldn’t mind having my arms and legs tied down as long as I’m ‘uncovered’, if you know what I mean?

What’s On Your Limits List?

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