Kinky Sex Learning – Basic Anal Training Explained

Kinky Sex Learning – Basic Anal Training Explained

I’ll agree to the fisting, but I’d really like to claim your ass, Anastasia. But we’ll wait for that. Besides, it’s not something we can give into, he smirks at me. Your ass will need training. Training? I whisper. Oh yes. It’ll need careful preparation.

Anal training – the mention of this sexual act sends shivers down the spine of submissives. Like a lot of sex-newbies, many have no idea what anal training is, let alone what it entails. If you want to try out anal sex for the first time, there are steps you should follow and tools you should use. To break it down into simple terms, you’ll need to follow the three S’s – slippery, small and slow!

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Slippery – What I mean by this is that you are going to need a decent amount of a good lubricant. There are two schools of thought when it comes to anal lube. The first one being that you use a basic anal lube that works well with your toys (usually water based) and work your way through that initial discomfort and pain. The other being that you use a specialized desensitizing lube to help reduce the amount of pain you experience during anal and butt plug training. Whichever you choose – make sure you use a lot. This is one of those times where you’d rather have too much than not enough!

Small – Anal training involves the insertion of objects – usually toys or fingers – in increasing size to build you up. You want to start small. A lubed up finger will do just fine at the start. If you are uncomfortable using a bare finger, covering it with a condom could help, or you could use fingertip anal toys like the Tushy Teaser Anal Set. When you get past that stage, anal plugs are the next best step. I’ve previously reviewed butt plugs and anal toys that are available at Adam & Eve. For anal training, though, I suggest starting off with a straight sided, narrow diameter toy. Once you are comfortable and have increased the diameter to where you feel the most at ease, then I would move onto ‘plug’ type anal toys with flared sides for butt plug training, or penis shaped toys if your ultimate goal is to have anal sex with a man.

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Slow – There’s no need to rush anal training. It should take you at least a few days, if not weeks of training to get up to your desired side. Only move as fast as your body allows. If you experience pain that you are not willing to push through, take it down a size and maintain that level for a while before progressing with your butt plug training. Once you have ‘recovered’, you can move forward and increase the size. Anal training should also be an enjoyable experience. Use orgasms to your advantage! Your body relaxes when experiencing pleasure, so pleasure yourself as you are going through the training. For ladies, clit stimulation will help take your mind off what’s going on behind you. For the guys, a good jerk can add to the pleasure of anal training.

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